Let’s face it—applying to PA school is hard enough without the added stress of answering all the questions from family. You know the ones: “Why didn’t you just become a doctor?” or “Are you sure you’ll make enough money as a PA?” or my personal favorite, “How are you going to balance school and life?”
You might be nodding your head (or cringing). While family members generally mean well, they often ask questions that are—well, let’s call them “challenging.” But fear not! You can handle these with grace, confidence, and a sprinkle of humor. Here’s a quick guide on how to tackle those tough PA school questions like a pro.
1. “Why didn’t you just become a doctor?”
Ah, the classic. It’s a common question, but the truth is, not everyone wants to be a doctor—and that’s perfectly fine. When you get hit with this one, you can confidently explain that Physician Assistants are highly skilled medical professionals who provide exceptional care, often with more flexibility in their careers and lifestyles. Plus, PA school takes significantly less time than medical school, and who doesn’t want to get into the workforce sooner?
Try this response:
“Becoming a PA allows me to practice medicine in a way that aligns with my goals and interests, and I’ll be able to start my career much sooner! Plus, with the versatility of the PA role, I can work in multiple specialties without additional residencies. It’s a win-win!”
Bonus tip: Throw in a fun fact about how the PA profession consistently ranks high in job satisfaction and work-life balance. Boom—instant credibility!
2. “Can you really make enough money as a PA?”
Oh yes, the money question. While PAs might not make quite as much as doctors, they’re still very well compensated. The median salary for a PA in the U.S. is well into six figures, and the profession is in high demand.
Try this response:
“Physician Assistants are among the highest-paid healthcare professionals, and with job security and flexibility, it’s a fantastic career. Plus, with the growing demand for PAs, there’s no shortage of opportunities to earn a great living doing what I love!”
If you want to sprinkle in a little humor, you can add: “And hey, I’ll still have money for those family vacations you keep suggesting!”
3. “How are you going to balance school and life?”
This is a fair question because PA school is intense. But the truth is, you’ve already thought this through (probably more than they realize). Time management is key, and with proper planning, you’ll make it work. Remind them that you’re not the first, nor the last, to juggle a demanding program and still have a life.
Try this response:
“I won’t pretend PA school will be easy, but I’ve got a solid plan for time management and self-care. It’s going to be about priorities and balance. And honestly, once I’m through this, I’ll have the skills and career to live life on my terms.”
Add in: “Plus, if I can balance family gatherings and study sessions, I’m pretty sure I can handle anything!”
4. “What if you can’t handle the pressure?”
Every program has its challenges, but you wouldn’t have applied if you didn’t think you could succeed, right? You’re driven, resilient, and have the passion to make it through. Sure, PA school will push you, but that’s exactly what will prepare you for the real world of healthcare.
Try this response:
“It’s going to be tough, but I’m tougher. I’ve already prepared myself mentally for the challenges, and I have a great support system (including you!). Besides, PAs need to handle pressure in the workplace, so PA school is just preparing me to be the best version of myself.”
A little humor goes a long way here: “And if all else fails, coffee and perseverance will get me through!”
5. “What’s your backup plan?”
It’s a valid question, but here’s the thing: you’re not going into this with a defeatist attitude. You’ve committed to PA school because you know this is what you want. Of course, life is unpredictable, but you’ve got this.
Try this response:
“I’m confident that PA school is the right path for me, and I’ve put in the work to ensure that I succeed. My ‘backup plan’ is really just staying flexible and focused—because I’m determined to make this happen.”
Add humor for good measure: “And hey, if I ever need a Plan B, I can always become the family’s in-house healthcare expert—free consultations for everyone!”
Final Thoughts: Handling the Tough Questions with Confidence
Answering your family’s questions about PA school doesn’t have to feel like an interrogation. With a little confidence and preparation, you can turn those tough questions into an opportunity to share your excitement and determination. Just remember: you’ve chosen this path because it’s right for you, and no one knows your goals better than you do.
And if all else fails? Smile, breathe, and remind them that you’ll be the one wearing the white coat soon enough.
Got any other tough PA school questions from family? Share them in the comments below!
